An Exclusive Matchmaking Service for professionals
Find your perfect date and the love that fits your lifestyle through The Ultimate Attraction.


Find The Love That Fits Your Lifestyle

The Ultimate Attraction is a national dating agency that provides accomplished, fun, charismatic and driven matches of the highest calibre available. Working with your own personal matchmaker, who will save you valuable time by guiding and supporting you throughout the dating process.

‘No compromises because only the best will do.’


Date In Safety

Your personal information will be totally confidential. No photos or personal details are ever published on any public website. All of our clients are personally interviewed and carefully vetted, so you can date with complete confidence.


Only The Best

The UK’s leading lifestyle dating agency providing the highest quality personal matchmaking service that we can through our outstanding matchmaking team and covering the whole of the mainland UK.


Genuine People

Just real people looking for real relationships. Often busy professionals who live life in the fast lane, with little spare time to find quality dates and love.
Let our outstanding personal matchmaking team do the work for you.


The Ultimate Attraction is a service that saved me so much heartache and stress. After terrible dating experiences with poor calibre men on the quick dash websites I found a way to date safely at last and have finally found love.

- Melanie -

Our Differentiators

Try The Ultimate Attraction difference:

  • We have probably the largest database of personally interviewed and carefully vetted members to ensure that you are dating someone 100% genuine and cover the whole of the UK.
  • We also use one of the most comprehensive client questionnaires in the Personal Matchmaking industry to get to know our members in considerable depth.
  • We then utilise our leading-edge matchmaking technology to provide you with the best membership experience that we can.

The Ultimate Attraction is a personal matchmaking agency that is exclusive and is an up to the minute, sophisticated, modern way of finding a high-quality new partner. Our service is aimed at professionals aged 30-65. The Ultimate Attraction is very much centred on our members lifestyle needs. Many of our members lead busy lives but want to maximise their opportunities to experience life – and love – at its best.

This is where our team at The Ultimate Attraction can step in and help this dream become a reality. If finding that special partner has proved difficult in the past or you just have not had the time to devote to your search then let us help.

A conversation with one of our Membership Advisers is the first step. You can call us at any time 9am until 9pm on 0800 644 4190. Or complete our contact form and we will be back to you within 24 working hours. We are proud members of the Dating Agency Association.

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Find Love That Fits Your Lifestyle

I wish I knew of the service earlier, it could have saved me years. The team are incredible, it was the best dating decision I have made. More people need to know of this incredible agency.

- James -


The Ultimate Team



Alex's industry experience is unmatched and she has helped many hundreds of singles to find love as a Personal Matchmaker, Matchmaking Team Manager and Professional Head-hunter.
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Membership Adviser

Zoe has been a very successful Matchmaker within the Dating Industry here at Searchmate and is enjoying the same success within her role as a Senior Membership Adviser.
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Kerry finished as runner up in our Matchmaker of the Year in 2018, won Matchmaker of the Year in 2019 and was then runner up again in 2020!
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As part of the team with access to genuine, eligible men and women, we are confident that Lucy will offer an unrivalled service to our clients.
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‘No compromises because only the best will do.’


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