Why Dating is Harder Without a Matchmaker

July 18th, 2022



A recent US study has found that seven in ten singles feel that their dating lives are not going well. According to the Pew Research Centre, many singles feel that the dating process is horribly daunting. Three quarters of those surveyed said it was difficult to find genuinely eligible people to connect with.

At Ultimate Attraction, we feel it is clear why dating is harder without a matchmaker. 56 per cent of singles who took part in the study said they are no longer looking for casual hook ups. Commitment and authenticity are the new buzz words in dating and, let’s be honest, these qualities are rarely found online.

Those who seek genuine relationships are moving towards the timeless notion of matchmaking. This means finding love through a mutual connection. Simply put, it is so much more exciting to meet a new person who has been recommended to us by someone who cares about our happiness. Compare this feeling to the anxiety attached to meeting a stranger who could be duping us.

Matchmaking agencies can charge six figure sums for the service but at Ultimate Attraction, we offer affordable packages for single, city professionals in London and other major international cities. We know that more and more people want the support of a dating expert when it comes to finding love. City dating can feel fast and heartless; no-one deserves to feel easily discarded.

The pros of using a personal matchmaker include professional advice, privacy and safety. Your Ultimate Attraction matchmaker will genuinely care about your personal happiness and will work on expertise and intuition rather than algorithms.

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